Sandi I will claim you! Edna Alexander Franklim -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of CASSANDRA MITCHELL Sent: Wednesday, November 22, 2006 2:17 AM To: [email protected] Subject: [ALEXANDER] Family black sheep or secrets Fellow listers, As was mentioned by the previos poster, here seems to be a recurring theme of family members hiding things, not wishing to talk about events, certain family members, and covering things they think should not come out. The actual truth about it is, what does it truly matter in the grand scheme of things? If your ancestors did something or a member of the family had a secret, it is absolutely no reflection on present day family members. Whether you are an Alexander or what EVER, we are all members of the human race, and if we have not learned tolerance and the ability to forgive, we are no where. I think it is more important to be a member of the larger family, flawed and human and wonderful! It would be so great to see these things be overshadowed by the joy of accomplishing another branch of the old family tree! Wouldn't that be super?! Brick walls knocked down and information out of the shadows. Sandi Mitchell Menifee CA p.s. This whole reason is why I have no family other than the name. It's both disgusting and sad. I am my own human being. Alexander or Smith or Jones. It never occurred to me in my entire life that as a good person, anyone wouldn't want to claim me! Quite the opposite. I've been at this for years. Problems, contact the list administrator gail dot kilgore at gmail dot com ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to [email protected] with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message