Dear List member: Since there are lots of folks who read these emails, it is very helpful if you list names and dates with the msgs, such as Parker who married German. Parker who? When did she/he live? I have Parkers, but do not have a surname German. They are indeed from Elba. Can you offer more details? You visited a grave. You put up a new marker for one almost lost to elements. That is WONDERFUL, truly. Who was it? What did you put on the grave? Thanks for your additional details. Bobbie, a Parker Researcher... ************************************** Get a sneak peek of the all-new AOL at http://discover.aol.com/memed/aolcom30tour