Pam I am so sorry. l ask you to reconsider your reccomedation to take you off the list. I have known you for several years,although not personnaly, thru, searches and my niece Anita Smith. She had alot of your works and passed some on to me when she passed away.Please change your mind, your friend, Jinny Pam Miller <[email protected]> wrote:I can not tell you how tried I am, this feels like we are in grade school & the bullies are picking on the smaller kids. Hello I'm not a little kid, I'm a middle aged woman, that used to really enjoy doing genealogy. I have been doing genealogy for a long time, & belong to quite a few groups, met more people than I can remember, & never have I been treated so rudely. I'm truly shocked. As for the statements that I put up information & claim it as my own. Let me state that I have never done that, I put on my site that the CENSUS research was done by Pam Miller, BECAUSE it was, I can vouch for that information. And in fact that is the only reason I put that fact on their. If somebody wants to take my information & put it into their tree (as many have done) & not state that it came from my tree, SO WHAT!!! I'm glad it helped them, If they believe everything they find on the net is fact, then they are not serious genealogist, they are just having fun & again SO WHAT!!! I never saw the rules we are suppose to go by, I'm sure by now I have broke quite a few, SO WHAT!!! As for the 30,000 name's I have, well that is wrong, I have 39,415, I would say 95% of that number is of my family, you see my family is LDS, now don't assume that I'm LDS, because that would be wrong. And many of them were far greater genealogist than I could ever hope to be. Is there a limit as to the number of family ancestors one can have on their tree? Bet I broke that rule too. The other 5% is my husband's, which this site fall's into, & even with that, this is the one of the smallest families, of his family that I'm working on. And this much grief is not worth it. I have met two wonderful women, that also belong to this site. I know that our relationship's will survive, because we respect & understand that everyone & everything does not have to be perfect. I try to treat other's with the utmost respect, even when I don't agree with them. And I must say this has really been a challenge. I also feel that when judgment day comes around, we will be judged, by the same standards as we judged other's. I have, said my peace, I wish I could say I've enjoyed this, but that would just be WRONG. Please take me off the list, so you can work at having a perfect list, I wish you well. I have a funeral I have to go to, & take care of the living, this has taken up far to much of my time. Pam Miller ============================== New! Family Tree Maker 2005. Build your tree and search for your ancestors at the same time. Share your tree with family and friends. Learn more: http://landing.ancestry.com/familytreemaker/2005/tour.aspx?sourceid=14599&targetid=5429 JESUS LOVES YOU