Sandra, You owe all of us an apology, but just as before that will not come. I have dealt with Ancestry.com for years, they have cleared up little glitch's here & there for me, (nothing like you has ever came up) so I do know how the people hand out advice, that and the fact that I live in Utah I know the people here (Ancestry.com's base is in Utah) & no one would ever have given you the advice to accuse the people on the site, rather, I'm sure they suggested that you, ASK if anyone put your information on the net, & then to ask them to remove it. I'm stunned with your reprehensible behavior, a woman your age should know better. You & your kind have become a cancer to the list & the MyFamily site, I tried to ignore you, I tried to forgive you, (not forget mind you, I'm not stupid) I'm a Christian & I strongly believe in forgiveness, but Lord you do make it a challenge. I have removed or I should say I tried to remove all the postings I made to the MyFamily site, but much to my surprise, I found that I could not remove my personal family tree Mary Jane Ailes & that I have been listed as a GUEST to my tree, it still shows that I'm the owner but that I'm a guest, since you or Liz are the only two that could change that status & I know Liz did not change it, that leaves me ASK why you changed it & when will you be changing it back? As it has been stated you have been asked to leave sites before, after all of the Bull that has been going on since this site started I can totally understand, There should be warning bells attached to your name. I hate that you have made it a necessary for me to write this letter, but I cannot sit idly by & watch you attack everyone around for no reason, this is the last straw. Anyone of us that would have put your information on the net would have been woman enough to put her name on it, we don't hide, & we won't lie down & take this. I did check out the My World Tree site & saw your information you spoke of, (speaking only for myself) this was the first time I had ever seen that you had 3 daughters or their names, I remember when you had your stroke you said something about staying with your daughter while you recovered, no name given that I can remember, or if there was one, I don't remember because she is living & not important to me. I work with the dead, that is what genealogy is about, dead ancestors. Most of the time I do not have time to read all the postings, so don't bother giving me dates about this posting or that posting showing that you talked about this or that, because chances are high that I did not read it. I can tolerate a lot, but you have used up your allotment for my toleration. Good luck on getting your daughters names removed, that is just wrong, perhaps you should look closer to home, somebody knows a lot more about you than the people on this site ever would know, should know, or care to know. Pam Miller

I just want everyone to know that I, too, have deleted all my postings on the MyFamily site. Last night Sandra placed Liz on "guest" status, and Liz could not post anything new or even edit or delete what she had posted in the past. She did the same thing to Pam. Liz and Pam are the owners of their postings and it is not right that they no longer had any control over them. Sandra had no justifiable reason or right to take control of what Liz, Pam or anyone else owns. I deleted my postings before Sandra took control of what I own by placing me, too, on "guest" status or disallowing me access to the site at all........she probably has that control, too. Tarney ----- Original Message ----- From: "Pam Miller" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Wednesday, September 28, 2005 9:20 AM Subject: [AILLS] MyFamily site. > Sandra, > > You owe all of us an apology, but just as before that will not come. > > I have dealt with Ancestry.com for years, they have cleared up little glitch's here & there for me, > (nothing like you has ever came up) so I do know how the people hand out advice, that and the fact that I live in Utah I know the people here (Ancestry.com's base is in Utah) & no one would ever have given you the advice to accuse the people on the site, rather, I'm sure they suggested that you, ASK if anyone put your information on the net, & then to ask them to remove it. > > I'm stunned with your reprehensible behavior, a woman your age should know better. > You & your kind have become a cancer to the list & the MyFamily site, I tried to ignore you, > I tried to forgive you, (not forget mind you, I'm not stupid) I'm a Christian & I strongly believe in forgiveness, but Lord you do make it a challenge. > > I have removed or I should say I tried to remove all the postings I made to the MyFamily site, but much to my surprise, I found that I could not remove my personal family tree Mary Jane Ailes & that I have been listed as a GUEST to my tree, it still shows that I'm the owner but that I'm a guest, since you or Liz are the only two that could change that status & I know Liz did not change it, that leaves me ASK > why you changed it & when will you be changing it back? > > As it has been stated you have been asked to leave sites before, after all of the Bull that has been going > on since this site started I can totally understand, There should be warning bells attached to your name. > > I hate that you have made it a necessary for me to write this letter, but I cannot sit idly by & watch you attack everyone around for no reason, this is the last straw. > > Anyone of us that would have put your information on the net would have been woman enough to put her name on it, we don't hide, & we won't lie down & take this. > > I did check out the My World Tree site & saw your information you spoke of, (speaking only for myself) this was the first time I had ever seen that you had 3 daughters or their names, I remember when you had your stroke you said something about staying with your daughter while you recovered, no name given that I can remember, or if there was one, I don't remember because she is living & not important to me. > I work with the dead, that is what genealogy is about, dead ancestors. > > Most of the time I do not have time to read all the postings, so don't bother giving me dates about this posting or that posting showing that you talked about this or that, because chances are high that I did not read it. > > I can tolerate a lot, but you have used up your allotment for my toleration. > > Good luck on getting your daughters names removed, that is just wrong, perhaps you should look closer to home, somebody knows a lot more about you than the people on this site ever would know, should know, or care to know. > > Pam Miller > > > > > > > > > > ============================== > View and search Historical Newspapers. Read about your ancestors, find > marriage announcements and more. Learn more: > http://www.ancestry.com/s13969/rd.ashx >