Thank you, Liz, for your mail. I too was deeply sadden by what has happened. I know many of us take this much too seriously and we spend too much sleepless nights over the Aills family, but we need to keep this in perspective. Genealogy is a hobby. Nothing we gain from this list will be worth hurting anyone's feelings. At the end of day when we don't know any more about the Aills than we did the day before, we still have the things in our lives that are important to us, the things that really matter; our faith, our families, our friends, and if we leave this earth not knowing the exact birth year of our Grandfather Aills, we can always go marching through the Pearly Gates with our laptop. Love y'all, Marlene